While I understand she was young when her brother died, talking now that she's an adult...she sounds selfish and self-centered. I'm sure her brother dying was a traumatic episode to her whole family...especially her mom and dad. A lot of families aren't equipped to handle sudden deaths like that. If that someone's not there for you....it's because they're trying to find their way thru. And I'm sure you may not have totally realized that as a child...as a adult it all makes sense. Don't just make it about you.
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